December 16, 2014

StudioWalton

I have to share (and gush a bit) on my cousin's sweet wife, Deb.

A life long artist, she recently opened an Etsy shop, StudioWalton. She pours her gentle soul into each hand felted figure, and her love and respect for animals shines through, doesn't it?

Lovely. Just so sweet. Visit her shop on Etsy, or follow her on Instagram. Place a custom order, or just smile at the aloha she spreads.






December 15, 2014

Spirit In The Sky (Because the soundtrack from "Guardians of the Galaxy" was on loop)

I have been a very bad blogger. And to any of you who still check in, I'm sorry to say that won't get fixed today. My apologies.

So, until I manage to get all the half-written posts pinging around my brain onto "paper", I'll quickly share a few pics from our Halloween RV'ing trip with the Kieffer's and wish you all Happy Holidays!

These two - spunky, stubborn, sweet. Love them!

These two - sassy, smart, sexy! Adore them!

70's zombies dressed to kill

My man!

Owen's Halloween mask, Bob's real chest hair

Campfire cooking

A quick stop at "Foamhenge"

Hoping for a trip to the World's biggest ball
of twine in the future!



November 10, 2014

Your Night Will Become Like the Noonday

No, this is not just a pretty necklace ...


These bracelets are more than an arm party ...


And these bags have the power to carry far greater things than lipstick.


Each of these pieces is changing someone's life. This is Noonday Collection.


By purchasing Noonday jewelry and accessories, you are helping to lift families out of poverty, allowing widowed mothers to care for their children, and giving fathers the means to provide food and clothing and shelter. Noonday partners with artisan colonies in some of the most economically challenged areas of the world to encourage, support and teach these proud people how to build their businesses and make their futures brighter.


And because adoption is close to Noonday founder's heart, trunk show hostesses (like me) can choose to donate 10% of their show's sale total to a family currently pursuing adoption. I'm thrilled to be blessing a family hoping to bring home two children from the Congo.

You too can make an impact. Share Noonday's mission. "Like" them on Facebook. Visit my online trunk show this week at Jodi's Trunk Show, and if you see something you like - for yourself or someone else - go ahead and click "purchase" (be sure to choose our ambassador's name, Michelle Petenbrink and enter my name when checking out so our adoptive family gets full credit!). Thank you!

Some of my beautiful friends modeling
their favorite Noomday pieces

October 27, 2014

A Story About Bob, and a Cat, and Life

This is Bob, in the storm drain. This is where Bob spent a good part of a glorious fall weekend.


Allow me to back up a few days.

Last week we held a funeral service for Bob's dad, Pete, who passed after a long decline in health. Bob and his brother Todd gave tearful yet uplifting speeches, and one thing that really stuck with me is what the pastor said.

"For 66 of his years on earth, Pete lived for himself. These last three years, he lived his life for others".

Let me be clear, Pete was never unkind to me, and I am in no way trying to tarnish anyone's memory of him. He had many friends and family, and he did help them out when needed. But, he did so when it was convenient for him and in whatever way he deemed best. For many (many) years, he chose to keep himself separate of close emotional bonds with Bob, and to a far greater extent, Todd.

But the last few years of his life, even as he suffered from the physical frustrations and limitations caused by his illnesses, Pete found a better way. He started attending church, he had long conversations with his pastor, he welcomed God's love. And over the last few years of his life I saw him smile from the heart as he strengthened his relationship with Bob, and built a new one with Todd. He engaged with his grandchildren, Cearra, Hannah, and Owen, with a new sense of joy and acceptance. It wasn't always an easy time, but his eyes sparkled.

" ...he lived his life for others".

This past Saturday, Owen and I were kicking around the soccer ball when he told me he had heard a cat crying. He led me to the metal grate in the far back corner of the yard, and sure enough, I heard the faint but distinctive moaning of an obviously distressed feline. As I knelt on the street in front of the drain cover, the noise (and my concern) grew louder, but the hole was too deep and dark to see anything.

You may realize where this story is going, so let's revisit Bob, sitting in that storm drain.

My husband, despite the fact that he would never hurt an animal, does not 100% share my enthusiasm for rescuing them either. But knowing me, and loving me, he climbed down the rust metal ladder to sit on an old beach towel with an open can of food, talking to the cat and trying to coax it to come closer to him. And after the first day, when we'd had no luck, he climbed down again, setting up the trap we'd gotten from Animal Advocates, and then again when the temptation of chicken finally led the cat into the cage, and a successful rescue.

You see, Bob lives his life for others. All the time. All the years of his life. Cearra, Owen, me, and this weekend, "Lucky", are so blessed by him.


I took "Lucky" (name subject to change) to the vet this morning. She is what they call a red tabby, and the vet said they don't see many females with this coloration. She is most likely a bit older than 12 months, and based on her weight (6 lbs) and lack of muscle tone (and the fact that she had several ticks and fleas) the vet thinks she's been homeless for a while. When we rescued her, she had one leg stuck completely through her collar so that it was wrapped tightly around her body (which I assume is why she could not get herself out of the storm drain) and the leather collar rubbed her fur and skin away and caused a huge, raw, open sore under her leg (note from vet: if you have an outside cat, please make sure it has a break away collar to avoid such a situation). 

I got her fixed up with antibiotics, deworming meds, a rabies shot, a fabric cone to prevent her from licking her wounds, a sterile wash, etc. etc., and the vet is hopeful that in a few months the wound will heal. The entire time Lucky was there, she was a perfect angel - cuddling up with me, purring, and allowing the vets to work on her without even one hiss. She is a total sweetheart, and I am so grateful we were able to save her life.

October 13, 2014

Where the Love and Lobster are Plentiful

Ah, Hilton Head. One of my favorite places.

Where we lounge in a shaded cabana, dip in a salt water pool, relax on the broad beach. Where life slows down and is made even more beautiful in the low country air.





It's where we spend blissful days in warm tide pools, building sand castles, and playing soccer with our littlest beach babe.






And where we enjoy laughing with family, feeding the resort cats, indulging in lobster, crab legs, shrimp, and slices of tart Key Lime pie.






Hilton Head. Made possible by Nana and Pop-Pop. Much appreciated and always treasured.


September 29, 2014

Hail and Well Met!

This weekend Cearra got a tattoo and Owen added to his sword collection. Bob and I are so proud!


The Maryland Renaissance Fair was great fun - and even better people watching.

On the left, a perfect example as to why one
should not indulge in too much ale!

Joined by the Bealls, we wandered the beautiful grounds, took in a joust, marveled over all the food choices, and found entertainment for everyone.


Men in stupid hats throwing hatchets 


Amy's mom Nancy found a fellow


Our knight for the joust


My Prince and Princess

And of course, that tattoo? Henna. And the sword, wooden. Huzzah!


The most pain free way to get tattooed



September 9, 2014

How Not To Be One Of Those Parents

Owen's first soccer game was last weekend. Go Team USA!


He was thrilled and had a great time; first because of his enjoyment in playing the game; and second, because for the only time in his athletic stint his uniform number is not 1 or 2 (he got 4).



Meanwhile, I sat on the sidelines and remembered that I have to try not to be one of "those" parents.

It's a bit embarrassing to admit, really, that I have to actually think about not being one of the adults who constantly yell directions to their child or play coach from the bleachers. But it's true. While not particularly athletic myself, I am very competitive. I like to win. And although Owen is not a natural athlete, I love to see him do well (and it hurts my heart when I overhear other kids commenting on his lack of skills or not passing him the ball).

So sometimes I find myself offering "helpful" suggestions to him from the sidelines, like "Owen, move up the field", or "Owen, go get it!", or "Shoot, shoot!".

No, not as bad as the mom who told her child on a water break that her play was absolutely unacceptable, or the dad who screamed at his son that if he continued to kick "around" the ball instead of "through" it he might as well quit soccer. Yet these voices remind of who I don't want to be; what I don't want for Owen.

The point of athletics and team sports, especially at this age, is to have fun, to learn skills, to be fit. That's what I hope Owen gets to experience. The thrill of victory, yes, but also the lesson of losing. They aren't, after all, playing for gold medals, national championships, or college scholarships.

Next game, the only words Owen will hear from me are "Great job!". It's just one of the ways motherhood, and Owen, make me a better person. And I'm so thankful for that.