June 30, 2011

For Japan


Question for you ... when was the last time you heard something on the news about relief and recovery efforts in Japan? I can't remember either. Media coverage has all but vanished. But of course the suffering continues for thousands in Japan as a result of the earthquake and tsunami.

As promised, I've researched which agencies are still working in Japan and having a positive impact, and I've chosen the Red Cross for their organization, goals and long-term plans for aid to the Japanese people.

Together we raised $620 through the sale of flower pins, which I will be donating to the Red Cross. And while that may seem like a small amount compared to the billions that will ultimately be needed to rebuild Japan, I think it's important to do what you can, where you can, and when you can. And we did.

Thank you for your support, generosity and enthusiasm!

From the American Red Cross:

"Three months on from the devastating earthquake and tsunami that struck Japan’s northeast coastline on March 11, 2011, the Red Cross remains focused on helping to improve living conditions for many of the 98,000 people remaining in evacuation centers - most of which are situated in the hardest hit prefectures of Miyagi, Fukushima and Iwate. Japanese Red Cross employees and volunteers are providing a range of services for the evacuees and plans are underway to install washing machines, water tanks for hand washing, privacy partitions and televisions.

“The physical and mental health of evacuees is of major concern, particularly where people are facing prolonged stays in centers,” said Alex Mahoney, disaster management expert with the American Red Cross. “Longer-term solutions to find more appropriate accommodation for people who have lost their homes are urgently needed.”

The Red Cross is supporting families moving into temporary housing units provided by the government, helping to restore a sense of normality in their lives. Home appliance packages, comprised of a washing machine, rice cooker, refrigerator, hot water dispenser, microwave and television, will be provided to more than 90,000 families with support from the American Red Cross.

The Red Cross is also increasing the number of caregivers and psychological support teams working in evacuation centers and nursing homes to address mental health issues, post traumatic stress disorder, depression and anxiety amongst survivors.

With major damage to health and care services, another priority is to support medical facilities, such as hospitals, clinics and care homes. In Ishinomaki, the Red Cross is planning to boost local health services by building and equipping temporary medical facilities. Specially-equipped beds are also being donated to existing nursing homes across three prefectures where many elderly people require special care."

June 22, 2011

WILW


I'm loving that Owen and I are here, with two fabulous women and a bunch of great kids!

June 19, 2011

This One's For Their Dad



The day the clinic called and casually told me that I wasn't pregnant, but "no worries", we could try IVF again, I lay on the couch and accepted I'd never give birth to a child. Many women bravely keep trying cycle after cycle, but I knew I couldn't endure more blood tests and exams and procedures and daily shots, not to mention the emotional toll of another negative result.

Still, the aching desire to have a child remained. Adoption seemed the only option, but Bob and I had never discussed it. I was scared. How would he react? Would having a biological child make him more or less open to adoption? Would he be willing to take a journey halfway around the world?

I needn't have worried.

He accepted the idea of finding our son in Kazakhstan with ease. I don't think it ever crossed his mind that he would not or could not love a baby that didn't share our genes. And when Cearra pushed back, despising the idea of a new child in the family, Bob calmly stood his ground, assured that she would come around and that she would love her brother (and of course equally knowing that nothing would ever diminish his love for his princess).

So today, this is what I thank him for:

Opening his heart to a baby that we didn't yet know. Enduring the good and the bad, the ups and the downs of our journey. Trusting in the bond between him and his first born. And of course, and most of all, loving both his children - supporting them, laughing with them, encouraging them, being proud of them. Thank you Bob for being a great, great dad.

June 15, 2011

WILW

Welcome back to WILW! This week, I'm loving ...


that after many years Dad got his convertible again!


watching the fireflies blink on and off in the dusk. Brings back memories of childhood and summer nights; catching the little orbs of light and being enthralled as they lit up the palm of my hand.


when Owen is frustrated with something (or doesn't agree with something I've asked him to do), he says "Oh, barnacles!". Guess where he picked that up.


The super cute mini cake my sister made for Riley's spaced themed birthday party!

And finally, I'm loving that everyday I'm getting a little better on this new computer/software!

June 10, 2011

Why Am I Wearing a Dress?

That was Owen's big question on the day of his Little People's Place graduation. Bob pondered why we actually paid for a cap and gown for a 4 year old, and I'll admit that I initially thought the idea of a preschool graduation ceremony was, well, a bit silly.


But really, how cute is this??



The kids were adorable. They stood relatively fidget-free on stage and sang eleven songs (my personal favorite was "I Like Potatoes").


They then exited briefly and returned wearing their caps, ready to be presented with diplomas by the preschool director Miss Mary. I missed getting a clear picture but I believe Owen was pretending to be a fish as he approached center stage.


Miss Heather and the three amigos!


Afterward we enjoyed cake and juice, and the happiness that comes from watching your child laugh and play with his best buddies.


Proud of our little graduate!

Now ... would anyone like to buy an almost-new cap and gown?

June 8, 2011

WILW

Public Service Announcement:

There will be no WILW today as we got a new computer last night and I haven't had time to move pictures/write up a post!

Apologies and hoping your Wednesday is wonderful!

June 5, 2011

"Are They Cheering For Me?"

Little League Day at Camden Yards ... posing with the big 5 in honor of his upcoming birthday (and Brooks Robinson) ... eating hot dogs and popcorn ... cheering on the home team and wondering if the "Let's Go O's!" chants were for him.




Alas, shakers and rally caps didn't help the Orioles as they lost to the birds from Canada.


Fun day anyway!

June 1, 2011

WILW


Today I'm going to start WILW off with a big thank you to Willis Haviland Carrier*... 'cause you better believe that with three days of over 90 degree temps and heat indexes of 100+, I'm loving my air conditioning!


Speaking of cool treats, we've all been loving Key Lime pie lately! I generally consider desserts without chocolate to be a waste of calories, but the tart/sweet combo seems custom made for this weather.


I'm loving that our friends Laura and Erik introduced us to dominoes last weekend! Honestly, I was under the impression that it might be a little, um, ... boring (I mean, it's matching up dots, right?) but we all had so much fun playing that Cearra and I went out yesterday to get our own set!


I'm loving this sweet picture of two buddies sacked out on the couch together as their parents play dominoes late into the night!


I'm loving the goods at Back 40 Life! I can imagine using this sign for all kinds of countdowns.


And as always, I'm loving how he makes me laugh!

*An American engineer and inventor; known as the man who invented modern air conditioning